Falling away, gentle touches on erogenous zones – a sensual massage can sometimes be even better than sex. What is part of an erotic massage – and which handles are the right one, we reveal here. • 1. The atmosphere: Of course, nothing happens with bright neon lights. Better: dim light, even more beautiful is gentle candlelight. In order to allow complete relaxation and a feeling of being dropped, you should isolate the room where the massage takes place from noise. Ensure pleasant room temperature, cuddly pillows and quiet music. Cell phones or televisions are prohibited for the duration of the massage. • 2. The right massage oil: Use a massage oil with a fragrant aroma. These may be refreshing citrus notes, delicate almond blossom oil or rose oil. The Ayurvedic ghee is also good. Note: Condoms must not come into contact with the massage oil – they lose their effect. • 3. Feel-good tips: Cover those areas that you are not currently massaging (eg legs or back) with a cloth so that your lover does not start to feel cold. • 4. Skin contact: Always stay in contact with your skin. Kneel about to the left of your sweetheart and continue the massage on the right side of the body, then leave at least one finger on the back of your partner as you change sides. So you avoid frightening him because he does not know where and when the next touch occurs. • 5. Apply pressure: Some parts of the body (such as the back) require more pressure – others, such as the thighs, should be treated more gently. Since each person has their own preferences, you should always make sure that the pressure is also pleasant. You want pleasure and no pain sounds 😉 • 6. The Start: Tension is usually in the neck and back. Of course, these games should also be treated – the erotic massage is more for intimacy than relaxation. That's why gentle pats and kisses are essential. • 7. Journey from head to toe: erotic massage involves the entire body. Pay attention to the reactions of your partner. Maybe it stays with gentle caresses – or the massage ends in a hand job or in wild sex. The hands are numerous nerve endings, which send light touch stimuli throughout the body. As in the foot reflex zones, these are linked to all organs. Massage the point in the middle of the palms with your thumb. Cover his hands with gentle kisses, suck on his fingers. Then move to the lower and upper arms with gentle pressure. The ears Here are many nerves that can send relaxing, stimulating or healing impulses when touched. Gently nibble on his earlobe, kneading his ear with light pressure. Not everyone (but some men) likes it: when you gently run your tongue into your ear. Neck and back Here you should work with both hands at the same time. Carefully feel tension, knead with gentle circular movements. Then run your fingertips along the two grooves next to the spine to the coccyx. Let him feel the pressure of her breasts! Now swirl back up to the nape of the vertebra – then with gentle wave movements with spread fingers down the back. Butt and legs On the butt you can certainly tackle more vigorously or distribute small slaps. Of course, always replaced by gentle kisses and pats. You can also feel the dam from here (but make sure that your partner is turned on) and treat it with gentle touches. Brush and knead down the thighs and calves to the feet. Feet Caution: There is a risk of getting a tickle. And: Some foot reflex zones are connected to organs. If the pressure is too intense, it could be a painful sensation to your partner. Apply pressure to the underside of the foot and especially to the heel. Because in the middle of the right heel and on the outer and inner sides of both heels are the reflex zones of the sexual organs! If the body of your partner is now relaxed and sensitized, the journey can continue – where, of course, you decide …